On Monday I have court to start my divorce and we will be setting up visitation with my 2 youngest children father. I am worried that he may try to run and hide with our 3 year old daughter again, he did this while I was in the hospital birthing our son, and I am worried about how we can set up visitation with a nursing baby who is almost 6 weeks old?!

Easton was born with a very common but potently harmful hernia that will have to be fixed and since we are nursing it isn't as emergent as it would be if he were on formula and having hard stools. Yes I can pump and he can get a bottle but his sister got nipple confusion and we had a very rough 3 months while she learned the right way to nurse on mamma....so painful!!! Also since he took our daughter and went into hiding with her for 3 days then used her as blackmail to "try" to make me agree to stuff I wouldn't otherwise agree to I had to get a protective order that will stand until our divorce is final so he can't be around me meaning I can't be there while he is visiting his dad.

What do I do?? I feel terrible that he has only seen his son once when he was 3 days old and I got our daughter back but that was his choice to do what he did and without custody in place it was legal, it was traumatizing to our daughter who had never been without me more than 1 night and was away from me for 6 days but legally it was fine. So he has missed out on his son and also his daughter turned 3 and he wasn't able to celebrate it with her.

Ok so I am a mess right now and not sure how this will workout. The best I can do is pray that everything will work out the way it is supposed to and talk to my attorney.